Monday, April 21, 2008
Review: Michou d'Auber
Invitation untuk menonton Festival Sinema Prancis datang lagi....
Setelah menonton The Diving-bell & the Butterfly di Blitz atas undangan majalah Mu-phi, gw dapat lagi undangan atas majalah Reader's Digest untuk menonton film Michou d'Auber di PIM hari sabtu tanggal 19 April '08 kemaren
Kebetulan gw dan adek gw, Meli, dateng "kepagian"...alias jam setgh 11 (karena kita diwanti2x untk dateng jam 10..lahhh..pagi amat). Dengan gaya casual (binun ama dress code-nya,..wlo tetap menghormati permintaan panitia dengan memakai busana ala red, blue, white..heheh), kita menunggu sambil melihat-lihat, mungkin aja ada yang kenal..(eee ternyata gak ada yg kenal..heheh)
Sekitar jam 11 lewat, kita dipersilahkan masuk sambil membawa goody bag dari panitia..(mayann..dapat minuman..xixixi) dan seperti yang sudah gw duga, pasti RD membagi2xkan door prize sebelum pemutaran film dimulai. Kita sih semangat2x aja ikutan quiz karena isi pertanyaan berhubungan dengan RD bulan April. Hasil semangat ikutan quiz akhirnya diperoleh adek gw yang memenangkan salah satu pertanyaan...hehehe....(namanya juga quiz,..pasti semangat nunjuk dehh...)
Jam 11.30 tepat, film pun dimulai
Btw, gw gak sempat foto2x,...klo di-poto sih kyknya beberapa kali..tapi hasilnya mana ya?...Mmm..mungkin akan dimuat di RD ebrikutnya?...
Cut the crap...to the point ya...;)
Director: Thomas Gilou
Writers: Jean Cosmos, Thomas Gilou, Messaoud Hattaou
Cast: Gerard Depardieu (as Georges), Natalie Bale (as Gisele), Samy Seghir (as Messaoud/Michelle/Michou), Mmedy Keraouni (as Abdel)
Sinopsis:
Dengan setting tahun 60-an--saat Algeria sedang bergeliat untuk bebas dari jajahan Perancis, seorang ayah terpaksa memutuskan menitipkan kedua anak laki-lakinya ke rumah penitipan sementara (foster care) karena istrinya sakit dan dirinya yang tak mampu menjaga karena harus tugas penuh di pabrik. Messaoud dan Abdel, dua bersaudara keturunan Algeria-muslim ini dititipkan kepada 2 keluarga Perancis yang berbeda, Abdel di sebuah keluarga petani dan harus bekerja keras sedangkan Messaoud "diasuh" sementara oleh seorang perempuan bernama Gisele dan bersuamikan seorang bekas tentara yang pernah bertugas dibeberapa negara dan tidak menyukai bangsa Arab. Untuk menutupi identitas messaoud, Gisele mengganti nama Messaoud dengan Michelle (yang akhirnya dipanggil Michou) dan mewarnai rambut Messaoud menjadi pirang; untuk mencegah reaksi dan hal-hal yang tidak inginkan dari sang suami, Georges
My review:
Agak lega juga saat membaca teksnya karena hanya 1 bahasa..(hehe..asli deh, klo ada 2 teks bahasa di layar--mata ini akan selalu otomatis membaca kedua--njadi cepat lelah ;p)
Awal adegan dibuka dengan memperlihakan sosok bapak "arab" dengan 2 orang anaknya yang bergegas menuju panti asuhan. Kondisi yang terpaksa dan tidak memungkinkan membuat sang bapak harus rela menitipkan anak2xnya di keluarga lain untuk sementara waktu.
Sang adik yang manis akhirnya dititipkan kepada sebuah keluarga tanpa anak, yaitu pasangan Gisele dan Georges yang sangat tidak suka dengan orang arab, terutama dengan orang algeria.
Peran Gerard Depardieu (Georges) bisa dibilang amat kental dalam film ini, apalagi fokus hubungan antara Michou dengan Georges benar-benar ditonjolkan hampir di seluruh bagian film. Messaoud/Michou yang baru berumur 9 tahun benar-benar menampilkan sosok anak yang sopan, santun dan haus akan kasih sayang keluarga. Muka-nya yang manis langsung bikin kesemsem. Begitu juga Georges yang merasakan adanya "perbedaan" pada diri Michou apabila dibandingkan dengan anak-anak angkat yang pernah diasuhnya. Georges belom sadar akan status Michou yang merupakan anak turunan Arab Muslim-Algeria yang notabene amat dimusuhi di daerahnya saat itu.
Walopun Gisele amat rapi menyimpan identitas Michou (dari mengganti namanya, Messaoud El Matten menjadi Michelle d' Auber sampai men-cat rambut hitam Michou maenjadi pirang) akhirnya Gergeous mengetahui juga. Tetapi karena rasa sayang dan cinta yang sudah terlanjur (istilah memes terlanjur sayang) kepada Michou--Georges tidak menghiraukan latar belakang tersebut; bahkan membela Michou mati2xan saat teman2xnya "mengerjai" Michou dan tetap memberikan tempat dan perlindungan bagi Michou.
Adegan lucu sempat diselipkan ditengah2x drama yang terjadi, salah satunya seperti saat Georges memberikan tutor mendikte ala militer kepada Michou (plus cara2x salute dan penghormatan kepada Jenderal deGaulle).
Score music-nya juga pas banget...sesuai dengan tiap-iap adegan yang disajikan
Gilou dengan indah memperlihatkan hubungan yang terjadi antara sang orang tua angkat yang memiliki masalah rumahtangga dengan sang anak angkat yang memiliki latar belakang yang berbeda mampu saling membangun rasa cinta dan kepercayaan, Gilou juga secara lugas memperlihatkan betapa sederhana hubungan yang terjalin tanpa melihat perbedaan ideologi, agama, dan kebangsaan; dapat membuat dunia menjadi lebih indah...
Friday, April 18, 2008
Review: The Diving-bell & The Butterfly
Pemain : Mathieu Amalric, Emmanuelle Seigner, Anne Consigny,
Awards: 27 prix internationaux (dont Golden Globe du Meilleur Film Etranger et César du Meilleur Acteur), 27 nominations dont 4 aux Oscars
Filmography Julian Schnabel :Basquiat (1996) Before Night Falls (2000) The Diving Bell and the Butterfly (2007)
Pada tanggal 8 Desember 1995, Jean-Dominique Bauby atau yang akrab dipanggil Jean-Do terserang stroke mendadak yang membuatnya koma. Padahal Jean-Do termasuk orang yang sangat sehat, berukuran tubuh sedang dan jarang sakit-membuat para dokter cukup bingung dengan keadaannya. Ketika ia sudah sadar, semua fungsi tubuhnya rusak, dari kepala hingga ujung kaki.Jean-Do terserang penyakit yang dikenal di dunia medis sebagai “locked-in syndrome”, ia tidak lagi dapat bergerak, berbicara, bahkan bernapas tanpa bantuan medis. Satu-satunya bagian yang masih berfungsi dari tubuh lumpuhnya hanyalah mata kirinya. Mata ini menjadi penghubungnya dengan dunia, dengan orang lain, dan dengan kehidupannya.
Awal film dibuka dengan lagu ”Beyond the sea” dalam versi bahasa perancis (ehmm..CMIIW, bener
Adegan dibuka “agak ajaib” yaitu pemandangan buram dan kadang tertutup—dan langsung kita sadari—itu merupakan sudut pandang si pasien—yang masih dalam keadaan setengah sadar dan linglung. Sempat agak lelah juga karena adegan ini cukup lama tapi ternyata sang sutradara pintar dengan memadukan antara pandangan mata si pasien alias Jean-Do dengan pandangan mata biasa.
Film “mengalir” dengan indah--memperlihatkan bagaimana keadaan Jean-Do dalam usahanya menerima kenyataan bahwa dia bukanlah lelaki normal lagi, yang sukses sebagai editor terkenal majalah Elle, yang memiliki 3 anak manis dan pacar yang cantik. Wlopun kondisi seperti “zombie” tetapi Jean-Do tetap mensyukuri dirinya masih bisa mengingat memori dan berimajinasi (entah itu imajinasi untuk sembuh, imajinasi tenggelam di lautan dengan menggunakan pakaian selam kuno—sampai imajinasi “liar” bercinta dengan sang pacar di tepi pantai) membuat kita sempat tertawa tetapi tetap dalam perasaan haru.
Adegan diakhiri dengan kilas balik saat Jean-Do masih sehat wal’afiat dan hendak bersenang2x dengan anaknya dan mendadak serangan stroke pun mulai menyerang
Oh..gosh..ini film Two thumbs up!!!..Gw sempat berkaca-kaca melihat penderitaan Jean-Do dan bagaimana dia dengan gigihnya membuat buku memoir (yg tentunya dipersembahkan untuk anak-anak tercinta) hanya dengan kedipan mata dan bantuaan translater.
Ada 3 bagian yang w inget dari film itu
- Locked-in Syndrome --- saat dokter memberitahu keadaan buruk Jean-Do
- A batalyon of cripples --- tempat rumah sakit Jean-Do dirawat yang penuh dengan orang-orang lumpuh
- My imagination my memories --- bagian berharga dari Jean-Do yang masih berfungsi sangat normal
Well,..tapi ya sudah selesai dan gw sangat—sangat berkesan dengan film ini..(secara personal, film ini ”menyindir” gw karena Jean-Do yang lumpuh masih mampu menghasilkan sebuah buku—sedangkan gw yang harus membuat motivation letter sebanyak 2 lembar membutuhkan waktu yang lama...;p)
Monday, April 7, 2008
Blogger day & Charger
Akhirnya,..jadi juga kita ke acara Blogger Day yang diadain sama British Council di tempat yang "ini masih Indonesia" alias di Ritz Carlton. Saat menuju RC, gw en adek gw jalan santai di trotoar kawasan SCBD yang penuh dengan bebungaan (Thanks God--gak terik..mayan bok, bawa2x notebook di pungung). Sambil jalan-menikmati pemandangan yang penuh dengan "hutan beton", si adek sempet2xnya komplein masalah trotoar dan gedung perkantoran yang "kurang bersahabat" dengan pejalan kaki. Gw cuma nyahutin aja, "ini untuk kawasan orang-orang bermobil, jeng..tapi mendingan lah--daripada di trotoar Sudirman yang lebih kecil.."
Setelah melewati lobby (yang dengan penjagaan ketat--seperti di airport...ckckck--makin lama orang makin paranoia ya..) gw dan adek langsung menuju lantai 4, tempat acara diselenggarakan. Sempat celinguk kesana kemari dan bertanya sana-sini, nyampai juga di venue sekitar jam 12 kurang. Di dalam ballroom, acara celingak-celinguk berkelanjutan karena banyak banget meja regisrasi dan notebook berjejer untuk pendaftaran online. Untunglah panitia-nya (yang masih muda2x, bok) cepat tanggap melihat muka kebingungan kita dan memberi guide ke tempat meja registrasi Blogger day yang ada di sudut ruangan. Well, setelah mendaftar ulang--kita diberi info log in masuk ke network BC untuk acara live blogging dan makan siang jam 12.30. Sambil menunggu tempat makan yang masih terjaga dengan sempurna, gw en adek gw iseng2x daftar ke acara umum Bristis Council-nya--dengan registrasi langsung di notebook yang disediakan panitia..Eee mayan, gw bisa ngecek email juga..heheheh dasar--gak bisa liat notebook dengan free internet nganggur nih kayaknya ;p
Sekitar jam 12.30 an--gw dan ade gw langsung menuju ruang makan yang udah disiapn buat panitia & peserta blogger day...hiya lahhh..dah laper berattt,..
Saat menikmati dessert-nya yang mayan enak2x (setelah puas sama salad & main course), gw dan adek kenalan dengan salah satu blogger yang biasa dipanggil Ade--yang ternyata ee ternyata, anak Pekanbaru juga. Ohlala....dunia ini kecil, ya jeng.. Karena Ade ingin mendaftar ke acara regular BC, gw dan adek masuk duluan ke arena Blogger day dan duduk dengan manisnya...
Acara pertama, tentang Microsoft live writer & Popfly,..wah asik juga..wlopun gw gak bgitu konsen karena harus mencoba beberapa kali connect ke server setempat. Setelah itu berlanjut ke acara sharing dari para blogger2x top seperti mbak miun, raditya, pak Wicak-ndoro kakung & bang enda nasution. sahring-nya asik juga wlo gw sempat gondok karena laptop-nya lo-bet..Oh no...mana charger gak dibawa lagi...Hiyaaaa..pupus deh harapan ikut live competition-nya...
Karena udah gak bisa ikutan--sekitar jam 3.30-gw dan adek gw keluar dari arena blogger dan melihat pameran sekolah-sekolah Inggris yang ada sembari melihat-lihat peluang sekolah bagus..Who knows, bisa dapet Chevening award & terbang ke UK?..heheh Gw pasti langsung sujud syukur & syukuran 2 hari 2 malem deh tuh klo bener kejadian...Semangat, man..semangat buat beasiswa....
Gw hanya berharap--moga moga acara seperti ini sering diadain--selan menambah ilmu, tentu juga temen baru..dan pengalaman baru--SELALU BAWA CHARGER wlo baterei fully charged!!!
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Legging-on the way (to Bloger Day)
Siang yang mayan terik gak menyusutkan semangat gw buat having fun di bloger day nanti, sedangkan si adek juga terliat mulai semangat--wlo dia bersikukuh gak mo ikutan live blogging, padahal hadiahnya mayan asik--Microsoft Window 2007 (yang pasti asli). Gregetan juga sih, soalnya dia kan lebih pinter nulis daripada gw..eheheh..tapi klo lagi gak mood emang susah dipaksa..
Sambil nunggu bis yang uamaaa sekai nyampe-nya, kita minum aqua sambil ngobrol ngalor ngidul..ee..akhirnya mata yang lagi "kirang ajar" melihat pemandangan kurang sedap. Ternyata si adek juga melihat hal yang sama,..jadilah kita cekakak-cekikik sambil pura-pura sok innocent gitu.
Pertama yang kita liat,....biasalah, ibu-ibu muda pake celana legging-celana senam super ketat. Wadouwww...jadi ajaib aja bentuknya. Gw gak abis pikir aja, koq ya gak risih ya, baju sependek itu, dengan cueknya pake celana legging yang tipis--yang klo duduk--langsung memperlihatkan rona kulit kaki paha-lutut-betis dan sekitarnya yang langsung bikin mata jadi kurang ajar (entah itu mata laki2x ato perempuan, pasti sama aja--menimbulkan berbagai komen).
Fenomena legging di siang hari ini gak hanya 1 orang loh--tapi 3 orang..
Ckckckck, blum 1-nya lagi ibu muda lagi hamil besar--yang sepertinya mo ke pesta kondangan..mmmm....cuma bisa cengar-cengir aja,..sedangkan gw sempat nyeplos,..wah..abis senam--lupa nyopot legging kali ya..eee..kayaknya ada yg denger--ikutan senyam-senyum juga....
Ok lah...emang sekarang lagi mode celana legging--tapi tetep ngeliat kapan dan pantes apa enggaknya dong...Heheh...yaaa, kita memang sebagai yang melihat cuma bisa cengengesan aja, apalagi gw akuin--gw juga suka pake legging--wlo dilapisi lagi dengan celana panjang...Kiamat kaleee klo gw pake legging doang keluar rumah ;p...
Yang kedua, di bis gw melihat cowok "melambai" pake legging merah tua...Oh no!!!!!!, gak deh..gak..langsung yang ada gw otomatis langsung senyum-nahan geli ketawa...ealahhh..tu orang malah senyum balik ke gw....Oalah..aksi gw salah kayaknya nih....Jadinya gw mo cerita ke adek--malah tertahan sambil memalingkan muka dan nyari topik pembicaraan yang lain. Bukan apa-apa, pose duduk gw sama si adek waktu di bis, amat-amat terpaksa, duduk dengan manisnya di bangku cadangan di samping sopir--menatap ke seluruh penumpang satu bis. Mo gak mo jadi bisa merhatiin orang satu bis duongggg...
Welehhh...sungguh perjalanan yang jadi penuh senyum dan ketawa-ketawa jadinya.
Emang kadang gara-gara melihat sesuatu-mulut jadi suka kurang ajar ya,...tapi gw dan adek masih berusaha untuk menahan diri untuk gak sampai berlarut2x "membicarakan" keanehan orang lain di mata kita. Toh, bisa jadi orang lain juga meanggap kita aneh kan?..hehehe...
Wlo bagaimanapun juga--kayaknya sampai akhir tahun ini, fenomena legging-on the way masih bakal marak dimana-mana..Hidup Legging!!!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Ngobrol ringan film G30S/PKI
Pertanyaan-pertanyaan yang diberikan antara lain:
(1) Sebutkan 10 film Indonesia yang paling favorit buat anda, paling berkesan, paling menghibur .. pokoknya paling oke menurut selera anda. Kurang atau lebih dari 10 boleh2 aja:)
(2) Siapa aktor, aktris dan sutradara film Indonesia favorit anda?
(3) Siapa aktris dan aktor watak yang paling berbakat saat ini? (alias aktingnya paling meyakinkan dan punya karakter tersendiri)
(4) Di luar drama, horror dan romantis, genre apa yg anda tunggu2 dari film Indonesia?
(5) Kalo anda jadi produser, apakah ada angan2 film yg ingin anda buat? (ceritanya) tentang apa? - ini pertanyaan optional, boleh pass alias boleh ga dijawab.. hehe.
(6) Apakah ada film Indonesia yg anda inginkan untuk dibuat sequelnya?
(7) Bagaimana perkembangan film Indonesia saat ini menurut anda? Cukup progresif alias maju pesat? Diam di tempat dg genre monoton? Atau gimana? Apakah harapan anda thd film Indonesia? Silakan kirim komentar dan kritiknya.
Dari beberapa jawaban yang masuk dari anggota milis--ada beberapa jawaban dari pertanyaan nomor 1 yang menarik perhatian yaitu film Pengkhianatan G30S/PKI. Ternyata film ini masuk ke dalam salah satu film yang paling berpengaruh pada masa Orba (ya iyalah..saat sekarang udah gak pernah lagi diputer--sejak lengsernya sang Jendral)
Tanpa membahas entah itu film propaganda, film "cuci otak atau film dengan maksud-maksud terselubung--para anggota membahas betapa efek film itu masih "membekas" hingga sekarang.
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Ini beberapa komen atas film itu (termasuk gw tentunya)
Angga: "Penghianatan G30 S/PKI (terlepas dari kontroversialnya film ini, buat gw ini film horror terbaik indonesia sampai saat ini. Kalo abis nonton nih film, pocong/kuntilanak/babi ngepet kaga ada apa-apanya!)"
Novi(gw): "betul banget...wlo berasa "cuci otak" dengan film ini--tetapi musiknya masik tergiang2x di telinga,..apalagi pas tarian genjer-genjer..hiyyyyyyyyy"
Angga: "Apalagi pas adegan waktu Jendral Panjaitan lagi berdoa di depan pager rumahnya terus ditembak sama tentara dan disaksikan sama beberapa anaknya, salah satu anak perempuannya langsung nangis sampe ngejerit sambil lari ke depan pager bekas darah papanya terus ngusap2 mukanya pake darahnya itu sambil teriak “papaaaaa…. Papaaaaaa….”…..Nih adegan memorable banget buat gw dan terus terngiang-ngiang sampe nggak bisa tidur… :D"
Eric: "Sekarang kalo dipikir2 film ini sebetulnya kurang pantas buat anak2 ya? .. hehe ... karena memang adegannya cukup mengerikan alias not appropriate buat anak2 .... dan ini terbukti juga banyak temen2 gue yg memasukkan film ini sebagai film horor yg paling memorable dan mengerikan sepanjang masa ... hehe .. jadi bisa disimpulkan: berhati2lah kalo ngajak anak kecil nonton film ... kalo filmnya nggak pas bisa jadi trauma seumur hidup .... :)
Klo gue yg paling keinget itu pas salah satu jendral (lupa gue jendral siapa) yang bilang "ini malam apa ya?" (gitu deh klo ga salah) ... trus saat ada burung yg berseliweran di ruangan rumah salah satu jendral .. kesannya tuh menakutkan gelap menyengat menyesakkan campur jadi satu deh pokoknya ... plus lagu pengiring saat para jendral diarak ke lubang buaya .. scorenya horor banget .. :)"
Reza: "Penghianatan G30 S/PKI--Udah pada tau quote-nya...pokoknya ngeri aja"
Angga: "Justru point-nya disitu ric, ketika itu kan film ini memang dibuat sebagai alat propaganda dan cuci otak supaya anak2 dan orang Indonesia kebanyakan untuk membenci salah satu partai dan orde tertentu saat itu. Dan hasilnya sangat – sangat efektif. Inilah mesin pencuci otak tersukses yang pernah dimiliki bangsa ini
Supaya nyambung sama polling, kayanya seru juga kalo ada sineas Indonesia yang cukup nekat untuk buat kontra dari film penghianatan G 30S/PKI. Jadi ceritanya masih dengan setting yang sama hanya saja diceritakan dari sudut pandang simpatisan partai tersebut yang katanya (ini yang gw baca dari berbagai sumber lo ya…) penyiksaan secara sadis terhadap para jendral itu sebenernya nggak ada. I think it would be controversial Indonesian movie of the year…hehehehe"
Epse Ringgo: "ya... gw setuju kalo Film G 30 S PKI cendrung bergenre film horor, bukan bergenre sejarah. Kalo ditonton sekarang masih kerasa seremnya (banget). ada Kalimat yang inget sampai sekarang :
DARAH ITU MERAH JENDRAL..."
Eric: "Yoi, ini film propaganda .... tapi kok waktu kecil gue malah ga kepikiran soal partai komunisnya sama sekali ... yg ada cuma rasa kasihan thd para jendralnya, yg keinget cuma kapten Tendean, plus letjan Ahmad Yani yg kalo ga salah beliau masih sempat pake pakean dinas rapi dan akhirnya di-dor di tempat (cmiiw, udah agak lupa sih:), pak Harto-nya malah kliatan kurang tanggap dan lemah gitu kesanya ... itu kesan gue waktu kecil ... hehe ... soal mereka sebenarnya dihabisi pki ato dihabisi "pki palsu" ato "dibiarkan" dihabisi pki, nah itu menarik ditunggu film political thrillernya ... hehe ... semoga nanti ada yg berani membuat .. coz "the general" has passed away few months ago "
Arif: "Perlu dibuat lanjutannya? Atau...prequel..Ceritanya si Aidit ;p"
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So,...what do you think?... Ada yang terkesan dengan filmnya? Merasa jadi "korban propaganda?" Sama duong...hehehhe
The happiest people combine work, leisure and extra income
The happiest people combine work, leisure and extra income
Baby-boomers asked to define R&R are more likely to say "rock 'n' roll" than "rest and relaxation." That's a good thing, given that the old-fashioned definition of retirement as 25 years of leisure is built on two misconceptions, says gerontologist and author Ken Dychtwald.
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The truth is, both paid and volunteer work will be available to enterprising baby-boomers. And work not only helps pay the bills, it also feeds the soul. In fact, 75% of boomers say they want to keep working (but not full-time), and more than half want to start a new career, says Dychtwald, author of Age Power: How the 21st Century Will Be Ruled by the New Old (Tarcher/Putnam, $14.95).
As the first boomers turn 62, they are redefining what it means to grow old. Although the most senior among them can start collecting Social Security benefits now, many of them won't. Instead, they'll stay on the job so they can bolster their retirement savings and hang on to employer-sponsored health benefits until they qualify for Medicare at 65. Others, who are more financially prepared, may take the opportunity to pursue a new career or volunteer -- and find a life that's more enticing than living in a gated golf community. And some will look for part-time or seasonal work just to stay busy or to make ends meet.
So how do you prepare for a successful and exciting semi-retirement, an encore career or even a series of careers? The trick, says Dychtwald, is having "a vision and dream for the life you want to live, and the capacity to fund it."
David Corbett, founder of New Directions, a Boston firm that helps middle-aged executives and professionals figure out their next step, agrees. "Many of our clients want a 'portfolio' of several activities to bring balance to their lives," such as working part-time, volunteering, taking classes and spending more time with their families, says Corbett. "Our most successful clients are the ones who start planning their transition three to five years in advance."
Dianne Belk and Larry Calder would say "amen" to that. When they decided to retire in the 1990s, they came up with their own version of the so-called bucket list: 4,000 things to take into consideration before they sold their companies and exited the working world. It took them five years to extricate themselves from their jobs, possessions and ingrained work habits.
For others, the transition is easier. In 2006, Joe Roland, formerly an editor with the Buffalo News, in New York, took a buyout that let him retire five years early and collect his full pension at age 60. The buyout was fortuitous, but Roland already had a plan for an encore career. A flight instructor part-time for six years before he retired, he had thought about doing the job full-time.
The self-described newspaper junkie now enjoys the best of both worlds. He fills in at the paper on nights and weekends and spends his days giving flying lessons. Between his pension and two part-time jobs, Roland figures he made more money last year than he did working full-time. And so far, he hasn't touched his savings.
Roland likes the structure of his two part-time jobs because they leave time for occasional Colorado ski trips and Las Vegas golf outings, yet provide the newsroom rush he craves. "If someone didn't say, 'We need you Tuesday night,' I'd go out of my mind," Roland admits. That kind of schedule doesn't suit everyone; some of Roland's retired friends are perfectly content doing nothing.
One key to making Roland's new life work is access to health insurance. He's covered through his wife, Monica, who continues to work as a schoolteacher. "If it weren't for that, I'd still be working full-time," says Roland.
For many workers, access to employer-provided health insurance is one important factor in deciding when to retire. In 1997, 22% of private-sector companies offered health-care benefits to early retirees who were too young for Medicare, according to the Employee Benefit Research Institute. By 2005, the number had slipped to just 13%, and the downward trend continues.
A Lesson From Gen Y
There are many reasons why working until 65 and clocking out is no longer the definitive retirement model. But the main reason is that many retirees need to work, and the economy demands it, too.
Longevity should be viewed as a gift, says Marc Freedman, founder of Civic Ventures, a think tank that helps "older adults with a passion for service." The U.S. will need experienced seniors as it grapples with social needs and faces labor shortages in such critical areas as education and health care, says Freedman.
And boomers need to rethink why they're saving for retirement. "People often think it's impossible to save for a retirement that could last 30 years beyond their last paycheck," says Freedman. "But it's liberating if you're not saving for the freedom from work. Instead, you're saving for the freedom to work at something close to your heart." Having both savings and income from a job that's fulfilling, even if it's less lucrative than your previous career, will enable you to continue to live the life you want, Freedman says.
Instead of being hemmed in by the comfort zone of job hierarchy, boomers are also starting to think more like the twentysomething members of Generation Y. That's a good thing, says Stan Smith, Deloitte Consulting's national director for next-generation initiatives. Gen Y workers tend to look for freedom to do their work, flexible schedules and, of course, good pay.
Boomers should think about dialing down the pace while they're still working, says Smith. That means taking time off -- perhaps using a leave of absence or sabbatical -- to reflect on the next stage of their lives. That way, says Smith, you avoid waking up one morning and saying, Whoops, it's time for me to go.
A transition serves a practical purpose as well. Given the large number of boomers who will be competing for positions, having a plan in place is a smart move. In 2016, the U.S. will have 47% more workers who are 55 and older than in 2006, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics. That's more than five times the projected growth rate for the overall workforce.
Build on Your Skills
Your plan may be based on skills learned from a previous career but focused in a more satisfying way. Gary Maxworthy of Mill Valley, Cal., is one of Freedman's favorite examples of someone who drew on experience to make a difference in his community, and whose modest salary helps make his retirement years more comfortable.
After his wife died of breast cancer in 1993, Maxworthy, then 56, joined Volunteers in Service to America (Vista), an organization that combats poverty in the U.S. The former food-industry executive earned a stipend of $7,000 working for the San Francisco Food Bank. When his year with Vista was up, he stayed on with the food bank and created Farm to Family, a network that now distributes fresh produce to food banks throughout California. This year, the organization expects to distribute 60 million pounds of fruits and vegetables to 40 food banks throughout the state.
Maxworthy, now 70, works about three days a week, earning $36,000 a year (plus health benefits paid for by the San Francisco Food Bank, which supports his work with Farm to Family). He lives well, thanks to a combination of his salary, Social Security and monthly mortgage payments he receives from his eldest daughter, who bought her childhood home from him.
Maxworthy still has plenty of time to travel with his second wife, Radha Stern, whom he married in a ceremony at the San Francisco Food Bank in 2000. "It's worked out well for me," he says. "I was able to connect with a nonprofit organization that had a vision and a mission that I supported. I knew where I could help, and they let me do what I wanted."
Take a New Direction
For many boomers, midlife is a time to explore completely new options. Donna Morris and Bill Sweat spent more than 20 years -- most of their married life -- working in the financial-services industry, she in marketing and he in operations. About ten years ago, the couple started thinking about what kind of business they could run together when they left the corporate world. "We wanted to do something with a product that you could touch, hold and feel, and wine was something we were both passionate about," says Morris, 48.
So in September 2005, the couple took a "vocation vacation," working for three days at Stone Wolf Vineyards, in the Eola Hills region of Oregon. For a fee, usually ranging from $500 to $1,300 per person, VocationVacations will let you test-drive your dream job. The company provides a mentor and hands-on experience in professions ranging from alpaca rancher to baseball announcer, and from caterer to jewelry designer.
The experience can be sobering. Aside from "working our butts off in the wine cellar and on the bottling line," Morris says, they spent valuable time with the vineyard's owner, Linda Lindsay, who tore apart their business plan and tried to dispel their romantic notions about the business, which in reality boils down to farming and manufacturing.
Sweat says the time and money -- about $1,000 each -- was well spent. Lindsay introduced them to key people in the Oregon wine industry, who helped them find the vineyard manager and winemaker they later hired when they bought their own vineyard the following year. They plan to open a public tasting room at their Winderlea Wine Co. in May, when they begin selling their inaugural pinot noirs.
For now, the couple are living on their savings. "We knew we'd have to support ourselves for at least four years, including covering our mortgage and health insurance, until we got our business up and running," says Sweat. (And, yes, he's heard more than his share of "sweat equity" jokes.) They planned for this day for nearly a decade, stashing their bonuses and company stock in their dream-job fund while they searched for the perfect opportunity.
Morris's advice to would-be career changers: Do your research, experience the job you think you'd like to do, and have a solid financial plan.
Do a Dry Run
Financial insecurity is the number-one reason people don't pursue their dream jobs, says VocationVacations founder Brian Kurth. But sometimes the most valuable service he can provide his clients is the realization that their dream job isn't so attractive after all. One of the most popular vocation vacations is spending time as the proprietor of a bed-and-breakfast. "You never saw Bob Newhart scrub toilets and change beds," Kurth says, referring to the comedian's 1980s sitcom set in a Vermont inn.
But you will find Bob Tubbs serving breakfast at a B&B. Tubbs and his wife, Grace, fell into running a bed-and-breakfast in 2003, the year after Xerox dissolved Bob's department in Rochester, N.Y., and offered Grace a buyout, which she accepted. Their story speaks to the importance of pursuing other interests even while working at your current gig.
The two owned rental properties around Rochester and had bought the Cedars B&B, in Williamsburg, Va., as another investment. But even before their corporate careers came to an abrupt end, "it was clear that Xerox wasn't a passion for either of us," says Bob, 54. "The Cedars ended up being a new passion and a new life."
They were able to apply their management and marketing expertise to the property by starting a first-rate Web site (www.cedarsofwilliamsburg.com), installing wireless Internet access and building gazebos on the picture-perfect property. Their inn, which has a staff of seven, entertains 4,500 guests a year and turns a profit.
Bob and Grace, 55, have already begun thinking about their next act. One idea is to franchise their B&B model for would-be owners who don't have a business background.
Bob knows people who remain in their corporate jobs only because they are waiting to qualify for their full pension. "They're lacking in passion and enthusiasm, and they've decided to retire at their desk for four years until they're fully vested." His advice: "Don't let that happen to you."
Cultivate Your Network
Let's face it: Sometimes it's not a deliberate choice but a corporate squeeze that forces workers into a new career. Despite an unemployment rate that's low overall, at the end of 2007 more than one million people (many of them college-educated and in white-collar professions) had been out of a job for more than six months. When you are 50 or older, getting another job can sometimes be a challenge. And in many cases, your new job may pay less than your old one.
Yes, age discrimination exists, says Scott Kane, founder of Gray Hair Management, in Deerfield, Ill. But it's probably not as prevalent as older job hunters suspect. "If employers have a problem and you are the solution, what do they care how old you are?" says Kane.
Kane is a career changer himself. After 27 years producing television commercials, he now teaches older professionals who earn salaries of $75,000 to $300,000 how to market themselves. For a one-time fee of $95, you can receive job leads via e-mail. Or for about $7,000, you can sign up for a lifetime career-coaching service that includes resume writing and networking opportunities. The price tag may seem steep, but Kane notes that it is less than one month's salary for an out-of-work executive accustomed to earning $100,000 or more a year.
Kane says a typical Gray Hair Management client is a professional who has always had a job and has been out of work longer than he or she expected. "Whatever he or she is doing is not working," Kane says. "A resume can't get you a job. It can only get you an interview." And 80% of jobs -- even second ones -- come from networking.
Gerontologist Dychtwald, who's 57, says boomers may have to work all the angles to find the right job, but they're uniquely adapted to deal with change. "We're the most educated generation in the history of the world. Twenty percent of us have changed religions, and 50% have changed spouses. We have a huge appetite for change and reinvention."
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
10 ways to manage stress
10 ways to manage stress
1. Eliminate as many sources of stress as you can. For example, if crowds bother you, go to the supermarket when you know the lines won't be too long. Try renting videotapes rather than going to crowded movie theaters. Clear up the clutter in your life by giving away or throwing away the things that get in your way. A garage sale is one effective way to do this.
2. If you are always running late, sit down with a pencil and paper and see how you are actually allotting your time. Say it takes you 40 minutes to get to work. Are you leaving your house on time? You may be able to solve your problem (and de-stress your life a bit) just by being realistic. If you can't find the time for all the activities that are important to you, maybe you are trying to do too much. Again, make a list of what you do during the day and how much each activity takes. Then cut back.
3. Avoid predictably stressful situations. If a certain sport or game makes you tense (whether it's tennis or bridge), decline the invitation to play. After all, the point of these activities is to have a good time. If you know you won't, there's no reason to play.
4. If you can't remove the stress, remove yourself. Slip away once in a while for some private time. These quiet moments may give you a fresh perspective on your problems. Avoid stressful people. For example, if you don't get along with your father-in-law but you don't want to make an issue of it, invite other in-laws at the same time you invite him. Having other people around will absorb some of the pressure you would normally feel.
5. Competing with others, whether in accomplishments, appearance, or possessions, is an avoidable source of stress. You might know people who do all they can to provoke envy in others. While it may seem easy to say you should be satisfied with what you have, it's the truth. Stress from this kind of jealousy is self-inflicted.
6. Laborsaving devices, such as cellular phones or computer hookups, often encourage us to cram too many activities into each day. Before you buy new equipment, be sure that it will really improve your life. Be aware that taking care of equipment and getting it repaired can be stressful.
7. Try doing only one thing at a time. For example, when you're riding your exercise bike, you don't have to listen to the radio or watch television.
8. Remember, sometimes it's okay to do nothing.
9. If you suffer from insomnia, headaches, recurring colds, or stomach upsets, consider whether stress is part of the problem. Being chronically angry, frustrated, or apprehensive can deplete your physical resources.
10. If you feel stress (or anything else) is getting the better of you, seek professional help -- a doctor or therapist. Early signs of excess stress are loss of a sense of well-being and reluctance to get up in the morning to face another day.
Susahnya motret
Topik Newsletter yang kali ini kantor gw akan bahas cukup menarik. Mengenai Persaingan pasar tradisional di era persaingan global, mengingat makin banyaknya supermarket baik yg kecil sampai kelas "kakap" muncul di kota-kota besar di Indonesia. Tugas gw, selain mendesain, lay out..seperi biasa merangkap menjadi fotografer. Yang terakhir ini yang cukup sulit,..karena harus memotret suasana di dalam supermarket..yang seperti kita2x tau, ada larangan untuk membawa kamera ke dalam...waduuu..wlo kamera digital gw cukup kecil, tipis tapi gak menjamin keamanan dan kenyamanan dalam memotret. Sewaktu di carrefour, sambil deg-degan gw memotret area kasirnya, dengan maksud memotret aktivitas jual beli yang ada disana. Duhhh...serba salah karena klo gak pake blitz hasilnya akan burem, sedangkan pake blitz resiko ketauan. Akhirnya nekad beberapa kali jepret...walhasil...dua satpam mondarmandir di dekat gw...hihihi..sedangkan gw pura2x bego aja sambil menyembunyikan dijikem gw ;p... Tetep hasilnya gak puas karena gw ngambil gak focus (maklum aje,...suasana rame, ngumpet2x lagi kayak mo nyolong..). Akhirnya gw minta tolong salah satu temen gw yg punya fasilitas kamera di hp-nya untuk memotret dari dalam.. Alhamdulillah,..cukup bagus dan..jadi mikir, ...boleh juga ya punya hp dengan kamera bagus..(tuing..tuing..setan belanja bisa nongol lagi nih...) Untuk motret beberapa supermarket di luar dengan background gedung2x malah asik banget..karena gw dengan bebas menjempret kesana kemari,..pas jam kantor lagi...berasa jadi fotografer tulen deh,..hehehe Satu hal yang membuat gw makin sadar, betapa makin konsumtifnya manusia sekarang, supermarket menjamur dimana-mana,..besaing dengan pedagang kaki lima.... btw,..yg tertarik mo baca hasil penelitian kantor gw ttg pedagang kecil vs. supermarket, bisa contact gw...
Mencari Sebuah Masjid
Taufiq Ismail
Aku diberitahu tentang sebuah masjid
yang tiang-tiangnya dari pepohon di hutan
fondasinya batu karang dan pualam pilihan
atapnya menjulang tempat bersangkutnya awan
dan kubahnya tembus pandang, berkilauan digosok topan kutub utara dan selatan.
Aku rindu dan mengembara mencarinya.
Aku diberitahu tentang sepenuh dindingnya yang transparan
dihiasi dengan ukiran kaligrafi Qur'an dengan warna platina dan keemasan
bentuk daun-daunan sangat teratur serta sarang lebah demikian geometriknya
ranting dan tunas berjalin bergaris-garis gambar putaran angin.
Aku rindu dan mengembara mencarinya.
Aku diberitahu tentang sebuah masjid
yang menara-menaranya menyentuh lapisan ozon dan
menyeru azan tak habis-habisnya
membuat lingkaran mengikat pinggang dunia kemudian nadanya yang lepas-lepas
disulam malaikat jadi renda benang emas yang memperindah ratusan juta sajadah
di setiap rumah tempatnya singgah.
Aku rindu dan mengembara mencarinya.
Aku diberitahu tentang sebuah masjid
yang letaknya dimana bila waktu azan lohor engkau masuk kedalamnya
engkau berjalan sampai waktu ashar, tak kan capai saf pertama
sehingga bila engkau tak mau kehilangan waktu bershalatlah dimana saja
di lantai masjid ini yang besar luar biasa.
Aku rindu dan mengembara mencarinya.
Aku diberitahu tentang ruangan di sisi mihrabnya
yaitu sebuah perpustakaan tak terkata besarnya
dan orang-orang dengan tenang membaca di dalamnya
di bawah gantungan lampu-lampu kristal terbuat dari berlian
yang menyimpan cahaya matahari
kau lihat bermilyar huruf dan kata masuk beraturan ke susunan syaraf
pusat manusia dan jadi ilmu berguna
di sebuah pustaka yang bukunya berjuta-juta terletak disebelah menyebelah masjid kita.
Aku rindu dan mengembara mencarinya.
Aku diberitahu tentang sebuah masjid
yang beranda dan ruang dalamnya tempat orang-orang bersila bersama
dan bermusyawarah tentang dunia dengan hati terbuka
dan pendapat bisa berlainan namun tanpa pertikaian
dan kalaupun ada pertikaian bisalah diuraikan dalam simpul persaudaraan sejati
dalam hangat sajadah yang itu juga terbentang di sebuah masjid yang sama.
Tumpas aku dalam rindu. Mengembara mencarinya.
Dimanakah dia gerangan letaknya?
Pada suatu hari aku mengikuti matahari
ketika dipuncak tergelincir sempat lewat seperempat kwadran turun ke barat
dan terdengar merdunya azan di pegunungan
dan akupun melayangkan pandangan mencari masjid itu kekiri dan kekanan
ketika seorang tak kukenal membawa sebuah gulungan, dia berkata
Inilah dia masjid yang dalam pencarian tuan,
dia menunjuk tanah ladang itu
dan di atas lahan pertanian dia bentangkan secarik tikar pandan
kemudian dituntunnya aku ke sebuah pancuran
airnya bening dan dingin mengalir teraturan
tanpa kata dia berwudhu duluan
Akupun dibawah air itu menampungkan tangan
ketika kuusap mukaku kali ketiga secara perlahan hangat air yang terasa, bukan dingin.
Kiranya demikianlah air pancuran bercampur dengan air mataku yang bercucuran.
(festival istiqlal)
Not my luck
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Thank you for your interest. We wish you well in your future endeavors.
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I just sent my application yesterday but they've already said no--and somehow, it makes me (a little bit) sad. Well,..I guess it's just not my luck...
Maybe you wonder, why am I applying for another job while I have a great job right now. Honestly, I'm preparing myself for finding another job, because of the situation in my office. In 2010, my office will no longer having cooperation with AusAid and the management tell us to be prepared (find another job).
I feel comfort working in NGO's environment--it's hard for me to "back" on private sector. Although most of my experience in private sectors, but I'm convince I will get a ne w job in non-private sector
If you have any information about job opportunity in NGO or UN, please don't hesitate to contact me
Take care...
Blogger Day
Yeeyy..I got the invitation and realized, I don't have any blogspot. Well, I have a web (www.bonjovee.multiply.com) but is that ok for me to join the blogger competition?
So, I decided to make one blogspot although I've already have a web of my own.
I can wait, to be there, to take any knowledge on how to write a very nice journal...
BD,..here I come!!!
The event will be place in Ritz Carlton on April 6th 2008...
C u there...